Love isn't an emotion that tempts us to judge, it's energy. Love in your mind produces love in your experience, just as fear in your mind creates fear in your external reality. The 'outside' is always a reflection of your inner being.

Love is not something you do for another, 
It is not how you act towards another.
There's nothing you can do that constitutes loving another,
No action that is of itself loving.
Love is a way of being.
And more than that.
It is simply being,
Being with another person, however they may be.
Holding no judgements, having no agendas,
No need to have them experience your love,
No desire to demonstrate love,
No intrusion upon their soul.
Nothing but a total acceptance of their being,
Born of your total acceptance of yours

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